三十岁之前改缺点

最近突然觉得三十岁大致是个坎

所谓三十而立,从另一个方面讲就是已成型 难以再塑

感觉过了三十岁,自己的缺点已经浑然不知道,因为不会去自省;就算知道的缺点也改不掉了,所谓秉性难移;

更可怕的是,三十岁了,或者碍于面子,或者不愿自讨没趣,或者知道你已改不掉,别人不会再指出你的缺点。

大家觉得有道理没有?

也许多读书,读好书,多思考,是个解决办法

4 thoughts on “三十岁之前改缺点

  1. well for women, 25 is an important transitional point that the best of ur life has passed…  but for men, it’s ok and u r still a few years away from that.
     
    well, definitly improving urself is important esp. when young. the thing is w/o experiences, how do u find ur shortcomings? so i suggest u to find a girlfriend first, haha, that’ll help u 2 get 2 know urself better and how the other side of the world’s looking at u.  besides, the more people u know and the more friends u have, the better u’ll know about urself.
     
    do plan a trip to slc some time in winnter or a visa to canada so we can meet in toronto,hehe.
     
  2.  patpat, take it easy
    其实我不完全赞成你的观点哈,因人而异的
     
    感觉你最近的文章有些严肃啊,出去转转,运动一下:)
     
     

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