三十岁之前改缺点

最近突然觉得三十岁大致是个坎

所谓三十而立，从另一个方面讲就是已成型 难以再塑

感觉过了三十岁，自己的缺点已经浑然不知道，因为不会去自省；就算知道的缺点也改不掉了，所谓秉性难移；

更可怕的是，三十岁了，或者碍于面子，或者不愿自讨没趣，或者知道你已改不掉，别人不会再指出你的缺点。

大家觉得有道理没有？

也许多读书，读好书，多思考，是个解决办法

4 thoughts on “三十岁之前改缺点”

  1. well for women, 25 is an important transitional point that the best of ur life has passed…  but for men, it’s ok and u r still a few years away from that.
     
    well, definitly improving urself is important esp. when young. the thing is w/o experiences, how do u find ur shortcomings? so i suggest u to find a girlfriend first, haha, that’ll help u 2 get 2 know urself better and how the other side of the world’s looking at u.  besides, the more people u know and the more friends u have, the better u’ll know about urself.
     
    do plan a trip to slc some time in winnter or a visa to canada so we can meet in toronto,hehe.
     
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  3.  patpat, take it easy
    其实我不完全赞成你的观点哈，因人而异的
     
    感觉你最近的文章有些严肃啊，出去转转，运动一下:)
     
     
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